I specialise in helping women in committed relationships break free from limiting patterns, communication blockages, cyclical conflicts and relationship fears that are all associated with relational wounding, so that they can create a thriving long-term partnership.

Thriving Love: A transformative group for women in relationship to build secure love that inspires their lives.

Thriving Love supports women in…

  • Creating secure love and embrace a thriving relationship

  • Embracing confidence in claiming what they want in their relationship

  • Relentlessly pursuing the life and relationship they know is meant for them

  • Owning their must-have’s for their love life and how to communication their goals, values and vision with their partner, instead of meeting common road blocks

  • Learning game changing communication tools that will break the matrix of their love life and open up a whole new world for more clarity and alignment with their partner

We begin online April 6th.

Are you ready?

Ruby Ash

Welcome! I’m Ruby Ash, I am passionate about helping couples become unstuck from destructive communication styles, coping mechanisms and resentments so that they can build a love that propels them into the life they truly want.

My path to relationship coaching began in childhood, where I witnessed the beauty and pain possible in intimate relationships. Growing up amidst addiction and a turbulent family dynamic, I learned early on how relationships could shape us—for better or worse.

At 19, I met my husband and, amidst the chaos of addiction, we fell deeply in love. Together, we committed to sobriety and building a life we could be proud of. By 23, we were married, and by 27, we were raising two beautiful boys. Our journey has not been easy, and it has been profoundly transformative. Through dedication, vulnerability, and a shared vision, we have fought for and created a love that is sovereign and inspiring, something we continue to work on every day.

My relationship has shown me the depths of my flaws and the heights of my potential. The triggers, challenges, and triumphs have shaped my understanding of love as a portal for growth and creation. I’ve built a life that warms my heart and excites me for the future, and I want to help others do the same.

I believe relationships are like fuel to the flames of our potential, we just need to harness that power through resources, support and practices.

Through Love with Ruby, I offer game-changing resources and programs to support women on their journey to actualising a thriving relationship. My signature program, Wound to Wisdom, is a transformational women’s circle designed to help women in relationship heal and create an inspiring and fulfilling love life.

My work is inspired by my own relationships—with my husband, my children, my sisters, and myself. Each has taught me the value of vulnerability, authenticity, and radical love. I integrate my personal experiences, alongside my professional training, to create holistic, transformative programs.

Qualifications and Training

• Currently studying counselling

• Facilitation training

• 500-Hour Yoga Teacher Training

• Trauma-informed practices

I am consistently dedicated to learning from incredible teachers and integrating their wisdom into my work.

I am endlessly grateful for the teachers and communities who have guided me, and for the love that continues to shape and inspire my journey. Thank you for being here, and I look forward to supporting you on your path to secure love.

Is This Group for You?

Do you find yourself stuck in recurring relationship patterns that leave you unfulfilled in your intimate life?

Perhaps you feel yourself anxiously wanting to change your partner or desperately getting them to listen to you but instead they push you away and seem exhausted by your efforts.

Or you are in a relationship that is deeply loving but you find yourself in a constant battle against your desire to express your truth freely and a lingering fear that the truth will cause conflict of distance.

You may feel it is hard to express your needs and go into shut down, switch off, distance or push away to avoid the possibility of being rejected or disapointed.

The ‘Thriving Love’ program is for women who feel a deep calling to have a relationship abundant in honesty, devotion, respect and friendship. It is for women who want to create secure and inspiring relationship, but continuously run into communication barriers, shutdowns, manipulation tactics, victimhood, commitment phobia and people pleasing, ultimately preventing them from stepping into that next phase with clarity and feeling grounded.

Let’s not underestimate the amount of resources, deviators and support a thriving long-term relationship requires. Thriving Love has been designed to provide you with tools and connections that will see you through this sacred journey. If you are a women who is stuck in self-destructive cycles of people pleasing, self-sabotage behaviour and avoidance, yet yearn for freedom from your limiting coping mechanisms that no longer serve you so that you can create the relationship that supports your dreams, then this program is for you.

To receive the potency of Thriving Love a 3 month commitment is required, this is an act of devotion to you. An act of devotion to your relationship. After the 3 month commitment you can continue on, on a monthly basis if you wish.

This devotion is at a low investment of $750 for the 3 month commitment. That’s $125 each circle. And if you join before the 15th of March you receive an early bird special of 10% off.

Why Do We Find Ourselves in These Cycles?

  • Childhood Wounding

    When we experience abandonment—whether physical or emotional—from a parent, it creates a deep sense of betrayal. For children, safe love is a life force essential to survival. When this love is withheld, it often results in the development of coping mechanisms to help us survive the emotional pain.

    For women, these survival tactics often include people-pleasing, self-abandonment, addiction to victimization, stonewalling, or commitment phobia. These patterns can manifest as shadow traits, causing deep pain and disconnection in our adult relationships.

  • The Shadow

    The Shadow consists of the parts of ourselves we deny or repress, often because we view them as “bad” or unacceptable.

    These hidden aspects are usually born from unmet needs or shame. These traits often manifest in destructive ways, such as manipulation, self-harm, or seeking external validation.

    Common shadow traits for women in relationships include the saviour role, addictive victimisation, and commitment phobia. By acknowledging these parts of ourselves, we can stop repeating these cycles and start healing.

  • Collective Conditioning



    The culture we are raised in also plays a role in shaping our perceptions of worthiness, love, and relationships.

    Our society’s views on gender roles, power dynamics, and status often shape how we show up in intimate partnerships.

    Queendom helps you break free from the collective shadow and reclaim your inherent worth.

What You’ll Experience in Thriving Love

Thriving Love is designed to support you building the relationship that lights you up. Join now to learn invaluable tools and gain life-time resources that will change the game for your love life.

Join Thriving Love now. $750 for a 3 month commitment, that’s just $125 per circle with a 10% off early bird special if you sign up before the 15th of March.

    • Learn about Inner Child Theory and how early life experiences shape your adult relationships.

    • Connect with your inner child and identify the stories governing your life.

    • Experience transformative practices to honor your inner child and integrate their wisdom into your relationships.

      Techniques: Journaling, Visualization Meditation, Breathwork.

    • Understand the concept of the shadow and why it’s essential to confront it.

    • Learn how to identify and manage subtle shadow traits that disrupt your life.

    • Celebrate your imperfections as part of what makes you uniquely beautiful and interesting.

      Techniques: Journaling, Visualisation Meditation, Group Sharing.

    • Explore the importance of community and create lasting, authentic friendships.

    • Learn conscious communication and the art of grounded vulnerability in relationships.

    • Understand the collective shadow in female friendships and how it impacts your ability to love yourself fully.

      Techniques: Journaling, Visualisation Meditation, Dance, Group Sharing.

    • Become the boss of your own internal state through practices like cold water therapy and vocal expression.

    • Reconnect with your feminine nature—soft and fierce—and embrace all parts of yourself.

    • Release societal expectations around femininity and embrace your authentic, powerful expression.

      Techniques: Vocalisation, Movement, Journaling.

    • Learn practical, everyday rituals for self-care that reinforce self-worth and personal power.

    • Understand the importance of self-love in relationships and how it strengthens your boundaries.

    • Create a self-care routine that honors your body, mind, and spirit.

      Techniques: Journalling, Breathwork, Art, Group Sharing.

    • Identify your non-negotiables in relationships and life.

    • Map out how to show up for your Queendom every day.

    • Create a powerful prayer or affirmation to dedicate to your sovereign self and relationships.

      Techniques: Scheduling, Prayer Writing, Visualisation Meditation.

How the Circle Works

  • Learning and Growth

    You will acquire tools and practices that will support your lifelong personal growth and evolution in relationships.

  • Connection

    You’ll form meaningful, lasting bonds with other women from around the world who are on the same journey.

  • Lifetime Access

    You’ll have lifetime access to all course materials, including journal prompts, PDFs, and meditations.

  • Discounted Retreats

    All participants will receive exclusive discounts on future retreats held by Love With Ruby.

Join Now

Is Thriving Love Calling You?

If you’re ready to break free from destructive relationship cycles, to know and claim exactly what you want from your relationship and gain resources that will serve you for life then Queendom is for you.

The time for your devotion is now.

3 month commitment at $750 making it $125 per circle and if you join before the 15th of March you receive 10% off.

Payment plans are available.